Archive for May, 2009

The One idea of finding The One – find the one that you like and live your life together. Check whether she is the one, are you sure you want her be besides you for all your life? You test your skill of problem solving between both of you. You would like to go travel together, seeing how the world sees both of you as a couple. If anything went wrong through this phase, break up and find another one.

Feeling for each other is important. Everything is in the romance and your heart glows when both of you are together. You like to be in company of each other and of course, being alone is torturous. Thinking about her all the time, before sleep or after wake up is a ritual. Breakfast on the bed? A morning kiss from her, while wearing your shirt? Wow. That’s how to live a life.

All of this seems perfect, except that you are not married. If this behavior becomes a girlfriend/boyfriend custom, there will be nothing new when you get married. Your previous experience will make you want more. Romance is a normal thing for you and marriage does not offer something new.

Marriage is about going on a lifetime journey on a big ship. Both of you will discover new colors of the world as a couple, experiencing sparkling new things together and endure stormy hardships with a new strength of marriage’s bond. If you hop in the ship when you are already tired of the sea, with all the bad experiences of breakups and betrayals, it won’t be as exciting as the former case.

My idea of marriage may seem conservative or kolot but that’s how I see it. This is an incomplete post on my incomplete thought. Feel free to comment and remember, attack the idea, not the person.


My new Daily Deal thread in

There are many daily deals website in the US and most of them carries a great deal each day. I’ve been thinking about bringing it to Malaysia when I’m going back for good this June. For further info, please visit the thread in

I’m excited to bring the first daily deal which is:

Swiss Legend 90013-11 Swiss Quartz Stainless Steel Black Multi-Textured GMT Dial 100M Mens Watch – RM410
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For over a quarter of a century, the makers of Swiss Legend have carved out a legendary reputation by manufacturing timepieces steeped in tradition, design and functionality. At the very core of the Swiss Legend design philosophy rests their commitment to introducing stylish and distinctive watches that harmoniously balance cutting-edge design with old-world precision and accuracy.

This is one cool watch! It features GMT World Time functionality (controlled by the Crown at the 10:00 hour position) with World Cities Scale on outer dial, a precise 515.24H Swiss Quartz movement, a stainless steel bezel with a seconds scale & engraved chapter markers, a multi-textured jet black dial with silvertone luminous hands, red seconds hand, a black/red GMT hand and luminous Arabic numerals & hour markers, a scratch-resistant Sapphire coated mineral crystal, date display window located at 3:00, screwdown stainless steel crown and a brushed and polished solid stainless steel triple-link bracelet secured by a hidden push-button safety deployment clasp. With water resistance to 100 Meters (330 Feet – 10ATM), the Swiss Legend 90013-11 GMT watch is truly a versatile and stylish watch that is engineered to last a lifetime. Get yours today!

Detailed Specifications
Model Brand New Swiss Legend 90013-11 Mens GMT World Time Watch
List Price $695.00 USD
Case Material Polished Stainless Steel
Case Dimensions 45mm (1.77") Diameter, 14mm (0.6") Thick
Movement 515.24H Swiss Quartz Movement
Crystal Scratch Resistant Sapphire Coated Mineral Crystal
Bezel Silvertone Stainless Steel Bezel with Seconds Scale & Engraved Chapter Markers
Crown Screwdown Stainless Steel Crown at the 3:00 Hour Position for Local Time Setting, Stainless Steel Crown at the 10:00 Hour Position for GMT World Time Setting
Dial Jet Black Dial with Textured Center featuring World Cities Scale on Outer Dial, Silvertone Hands and Hour Markers, Red Seconds Hand, Red/Black GMT Hand
Calendar Date Display Window located at the 3:00 Hour Position
Luminous Luminous Hands, Arabic Numerals and Hour Markers
Bracelet-Strap Triple-Link Brushed and Polished Solid Silvertone Stainless Steel Bracelet (24mm (0.94") Wide, Adjustable to 10.5" Length)
Clasp Type Push-Button Hidden Deployment Safety Clasp
Water Resistance 100 Meters (330 Feet – 10 ATM)
Warranty 1 Year Local Manufacturer warranty

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